Let it be, without forcing it;
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ENGLISH EDITION

Let it be,without forcing it;

Memoirs of a Chinese restaurateur in Portugal, read through life’s changes and the I Ching.

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If you can make ‘creation’ as natural as breathing, it is not because intention is absent; it is because all intention has already dissolved into the breath.
Sam Wang
02 · SERIAL READING

Two parts, twelve moments.

A life told through choices, losses and changes rather than a résumé.

CHAPTER I

Necessity brings change.

From arriving in Lisbon to the Madrid expansion, family, and the pandemic.

CHAPTER II

Change opens the way.

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03 · LIFE NOTES

The city passes.
Memory remains.

Photographs and short texts about Lisbon, restaurants, architecture, and the moments that do not fit inside the chapters.

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The entrance and glass façade of Casino Lisboa
The entrance and glass façade of Casino Lisboa
11 · 08 · 2026 · Casino Lisboa · Parque das Nações · Sam Wang
LIFE NOTE

Casino

The “human nature of the gambler” is a question spanning psychology, economics and traditional philosophy. Gamblers often show an intensified fixation on uncertainty.

“The illusion of control”: gamblers often believe they can “read” the logic behind random events, searching for a false certainty in the chaos.

“The dopamine reward”: a strong release of dopamine keeps feeding the brain’s desire to believe that “next time, I’ll turn it around”.

“A variation on loss aversion”: psychology’s familiar concept of “loss aversion” appears in gamblers as an extreme unwillingness to accept defeat.

Casino Lisboa, a kind of “pain” in the hearts of the Chinese community.

Parque das Nações, Lisbon’s central business district.

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I CHING READING · Author’s interpretation
Hexagram 29

Kan · Repeated Danger

Classic text · interpretive translation
Coming and going amid danger, peril offers no secure rest. Entering the pit: do not act. — Zhou Yi · Kan, line 3

Kan’s “do not act” places a boundary amid repeated danger. Repeated betting can confuse familiarity with control and turn frustration into a reason to continue.

Individual experiences differ. A useful question is whether the next action brings real information or repeats the same hope; distinguishing that opens room to interrupt repetition.

Reading in briefFamiliarity with risk does not confer control over outcomes.
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A Game, a Dream · 一场游戏一场梦

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Over these years in Portugal, I have seen people pin hope on the next bet. The song meets that refusal to accept loss: watching another’s game also sharpens my own judgement;

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RESTAURANTS · ARCHITECTURE · HISTORY · I CHING

Half a lifetime
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Hello, I’m Wang Sanxiong — Sam 🤝

The book’s epigraph is my motto, and the starting point for how I understand life, restaurants, and entrepreneurship.

I am a Chinese immigrant living in Portugal, originally from Qingtian, Zhejiang, and a restaurant owner. I love architecture and the history behind it; I love the I Ching, and use Eastern wisdom to interpret the stories hidden behind history.

A battle for small and medium-sized restaurants to reclaim their own customer channels;
The second half of life should be more exciting than the first — that is only reasonable;

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XIAOXIONG®; it is not an advertisement in this book. It is proof that, in the second half of life, I am still willing to change.