Let it be, without forcing it;
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ENGLISH EDITION

Let it be,without forcing it;

Memoirs of a Chinese restaurateur in Portugal, read through life’s changes and the I Ching.

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If you can make ‘creation’ as natural as breathing, it is not because intention is absent; it is because all intention has already dissolved into the breath.
Sam Wang
02 · SERIAL READING

Two parts, twelve moments.

A life told through choices, losses and changes rather than a résumé.

CHAPTER I

Necessity brings change.

From arriving in Lisbon to the Madrid expansion, family, and the pandemic.

CHAPTER II

Change opens the way.

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03 · LIFE NOTES

The city passes.
Memory remains.

Photographs and short texts about Lisbon, restaurants, architecture, and the moments that do not fit inside the chapters.

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A coffee spoon displayed in a white frame beside a QR code and a line identifying it as evidence
A coffee spoon displayed in a white frame beside a QR code and a line identifying it as evidence
30 · 08 · 2026 · Lisbon · Office · Sam Wang
LIFE NOTE

Evidence

Queijo Fresco—fresh cheese—is one of the most familiar traditional dairy products on Portuguese tables.

At the shopping centre, I picked out a pack of fresh cheese and wanted to buy a packet of disposable spoons as well. There is no running water in the office; use one and throw it away—simple.

I followed the signs in Continente and walked through the entire supermarket, but never found a spoon for eating the Queijo Fresco.

After leaving the metro, I stopped at a café and had a coffee.

When I finished, I looked at the coffee spoon on the table and suddenly thought of a question: ‘If I take it with me, does that count as stealing?’

I suppose it would be a case of ‘helping myself’ to it;

At the end of the handle was a small engraved coffee cup, with steam rising from it.

In the end, I took it with me.

Back at the office, I ate the fresh cheese with that coffee spoon; then I took this photograph and kept it as ‘evidence’.

“Evidence is not an excuse; it proves that something really happened;”

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I CHING READING · Author’s interpretation
Hexagram 10

Lü · Treading

Classic text · interpretive translation
Treading on the tiger's tail; it does not bite. Success. — Zhou Yi · Lü, Zhou Yi

In Lü, the boundary appears at the act of reaching out. A photograph allows the gesture to be revisited; acknowledging it is a later step that does not cancel it.

The author’s humour leaves a relational question: who owned the spoon, and how does one respond to that relationship after taking it? Recording opens reflection; repair needs action beyond it.

Reading in briefAcknowledgement makes an act clear; response attends to the relationship.
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A coffee spoon. All that thinking, and I took it anyway. A moment of temptation, perhaps;

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RESTAURANTS · ARCHITECTURE · HISTORY · I CHING

Half a lifetime
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Hello, I’m Wang Sanxiong — Sam 🤝

The book’s epigraph is my motto, and the starting point for how I understand life, restaurants, and entrepreneurship.

I am a Chinese immigrant living in Portugal, originally from Qingtian, Zhejiang, and a restaurant owner. I love architecture and the history behind it; I love the I Ching, and use Eastern wisdom to interpret the stories hidden behind history.

A battle for small and medium-sized restaurants to reclaim their own customer channels;
The second half of life should be more exciting than the first — that is only reasonable;

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