Let it be, without forcing it;
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ENGLISH EDITION

Let it be,without forcing it;

Memoirs of a Chinese restaurateur in Portugal, read through life’s changes and the I Ching.

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If you can make ‘creation’ as natural as breathing, it is not because intention is absent; it is because all intention has already dissolved into the breath.
Sam Wang
02 · SERIAL READING

Two parts, twelve moments.

A life told through choices, losses and changes rather than a résumé.

CHAPTER I

Necessity brings change.

From arriving in Lisbon to the Madrid expansion, family, and the pandemic.

CHAPTER II

Change opens the way.

A new digital beginning with XIAOXIONG®.

03 · LIFE NOTES

The city passes.
Memory remains.

Photographs and short texts about Lisbon, restaurants, architecture, and the moments that do not fit inside the chapters.

90 translated notes · English edition
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AI-generated video of a karaoke room, retaining the original AI-generated label
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LIFE NOTE

The KTV Room

Last night, the celebration of a friend’s baby turning one hundred days old was lively. Karaoke came naturally as the second half of the evening; voice after voice filled the room. “Born in Hong Kong — everyone’s a singing star;”

A friend called out a question, but the singing was even louder: “Sanxiong, I see you using AI every day. Tell us, how do you actually use it?” From what I could hear, that was roughly the question.

First, trust: let AI know you, understand you, become you; Second, position: you are the “commander”, AI is the “political commissar”; feed it every one of your “battles”; Third, cooperation: the commander is “yang”, the commissar is “yin”; one yin and one yang are called the Dao;

The music was so loud, I don’t know whether he heard me;

Wakin Chau’s “Friends” brought the evening to its high point.

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I CHING READING · Author’s interpretation
Hexagram 13

Tong Ren · Fellowship

Classic text · interpretive translation
Heaven and fire: Fellowship. The noble person distinguishes groups and things.

Tong Ren connects cooperation with distinguishing roles. The commander-and-adviser metaphor works when direction and scrutiny complement each other; repeated agreement empties that relationship.

“Become you” expresses trust, but AI can know the accounts without having lived them. Collaboration needs room for reasoned disagreement, with responsibility for decisions remaining clear.

Reading in briefWorking together includes allowing different judgements.
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Friends · 朋友

Wakin Chau · 1080p HD

“Friends” is the song named in the note. The explanation about AI may not have been heard, but singing together brought everyone back into the shared evening.

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RESTAURANTS · ARCHITECTURE · HISTORY · I CHING

Half a lifetime
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Hello, I’m Wang Sanxiong — Sam 🤝

The book’s epigraph is my motto, and the starting point for how I understand life, restaurants, and entrepreneurship.

I am a Chinese immigrant living in Portugal, originally from Qingtian, Zhejiang, and a restaurant owner. I love architecture and the history behind it; I love the I Ching, and use Eastern wisdom to interpret the stories hidden behind history.

A battle for small and medium-sized restaurants to reclaim their own customer channels;
The second half of life should be more exciting than the first — that is only reasonable;

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XIAOXIONG®; it is not an advertisement in this book. It is proof that, in the second half of life, I am still willing to change.